My angry bf - won't forgive me but wont call it off either?

depends on what you accused him of...it sounds like you accused him of cheating,which can be a red flag you dont trust him...and doing so multiple times he has every reason to be upset. if you dont trust him you never will. you need to work on whatever issue it is youre dealing with and you do owe him a sincere apology. give him more time to vent. if you keep pushing him he will only get madder. you need to ask yourself if you really do trust him, and if you have the slightest doubt then you might not work out with him... sorry to say it but a trust issue cannot be ignored, sooner or later it will show (twice it looks like with you so far) and it will only hurt your relationships. if you really love him, if you really really do then you need to respect him and treat him like you want to be treated. i was accused of cheating before with a past realtionship of over 2 years and i left him because i realized he doesnt trust me so i moved on, that doubt would have always been there in his mind when it came to my word.